Sunday, May 2, 2010

Final: Women in Saudi Arabia vs Women in the United States

Many women in the United States don't know how good they have it. I was one of those women until I researched how women in Saudi Arabia don’t have half as many rights as we do. In most parts of Saudi Arabia it is believed that a women's place is in the home taking care of the husband and the family. When women do leave the household, they must be accompanied by a man or boy of the household at all times. Saudi women are prohibited from driving, voting, traveling abroad, getting an education, choosing their own husbands and working without permission from a male relative. Some females as young as seven are led to think that they are being wed to rich Saudi men so their families can receive a dowry, but end up becoming servants, maids, sex slaves, and even prostitutes. Because of this, women only make up 5% of the workforce in Saudi Arabia (the lowest proportion in the world). Women are also strictly required to follow a dress code. In public, a woman must always cover her head, face and entire body. Many Saudis believe that allowing women to have these basic rights, such as driving, will lead to Western assimilation and an erosion of traditional values. Therefore, many women live oppressed lives under the control of men with not much hope for social change. The government recognizes these problems however they do little to protect these women and prosecute violators.


Saudi women covered up


American women in bikinis

I knew that I couldn't be the only women that took my rights for granted so I went out and interviewed three women on campus to see how they reacted to the ways in which women in Saudi Arabia were treated and how they themselves live their everyday lives. To collect my field reports I first asked a set of six basic questions:

1. What is your major?
2. How old are you?
3. Are you married? If so, did you choose your own husband?
4. Have you ever had a job? If so what did you do?
5. Have you ever voted?
6. Have you ever worn a bikini to the beach/pool/lake?

I then revealed the information that I had discovered to them and continued to ask the following six questions:

1. If you weren’t allowed to come to this university how would your life chances differ?
2. If you were given away by your family at the age of seven and turned into a sex slave how would your relationship with your family be?
3. If you couldn’t choose your husband and were assigned a man to marry can you imagine being happy with that person? Keep in mind that he chooses how you will carry out your day.
4. If you were like a Saudi women and were not able to go outside the home alone, describe for me three words that would reflect how you feel.
5. If all the men in the United States could vote, and you couldn’t simply because you were a female, how would you feel that they are deciding how you are to live your life? And why do you think it is important that you have a voice and opinion in the societal structure?
6. Since women in Saudi Arabia are forced to cover up their entire bodies and faces in public in very high temperatures, do you think you could switch roles with them for one day? How different do you think the garment industry would be in the United States if the values were the same as in Saudi Arabia?

Here are my field notes...
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All of the girls couldn’t imagine living the life of a Saudi Arabian women. They were very upset with the thought of not having basic rights such as getting an education or working. Since all of the women I interviewed are college students they held very high expectations for themselves and how they were going to live out their career paths. It seems to me that if they were forced to answer to men and lacked independence they would not consider their lives enjoyable. It is interesting to explore different cultures and recognize the differences of values and morals because it helps people understand social structures. The American women I interviewed may not comprehend the ideas and ways of life of Saudi Arabia, but to Saudi women, it is what they know and are advised not to question.


Saudi women and girls outside


American women outside

But as Americans we are able to question such ideas and values. So here are some questions to consider after reading over information of the Saudi people. Could you imagine living in a place that didn't allow you to drive or go anywhere without an escort? Why do you think countries are still set in traditional ways of patriarchy? Do you think that social change can ever come about? If it did would it be a positive thing?

For more information on Saudi Arabian women, please check out these library reference at the WSU library:
Saudi Arabia in the balance: A Political Economy, Society, Foreign Affairs
(call # DS244.52 .S28 2005)
Women and Words in Saudi Arabia: The Politics of Literary Discourse
(call # PJ8005 .A87 1994)


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6 comments:

  1. It is truly a culture shock. Being put under such strict limitations just because you were born a certain gender is ridiculous. Yes, it's very sexist...but a huge part of why this is happening is because of a barbaric and ancient religion. F*ck Islam, Christianity, and all religions that make people feel like they are inadequate and undeserving of the basic pleasures of life.

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  2. This is bullshitand and not true ! now there are hundreds of saudi women who are studying in the states by themselves and they are getting full scholarship from the government to study abroad !! yes Saudi Arabia is ruled by religion but its not to that instinct !!

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  3. Women have full rights in Islam.This is our culture and tradition and we are following Allah orders we never suffer,We know what we are doing ,better try to change your way of dressing in public so it will help America to reduce sex violation against womens.
    One survey is reporting that each 6 seconds one girl is getting sex violation in Unites States of America, Reported from USA itself.

    Allah Akbar ... Ahudha from Saudi.

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  4. That what you are think about as?!!
    But This is not true. you just look at bad side.
    We have all rights. We can leave the household alone. But When I leave the household I feel safty if my brother or my father with me. If I go to Shopping they will carrying my stuff. They treat me like princess. All men here respect women in everywhere. We live in a loving family happy interrelated. We care about each other. Because Islam taught us that. We prohibited from driving becuse we like princess, we have own driver and Maid. We all getting an education and We do not worry about education costs. Because the government paid about us and also give us the equivalents to meet all our requirements.
    Nothing in Islam can force women or wasting their right.

    I like my culture, I like my tradition, I love the way I live.
    No one outside of Saudi Arabia can understand how much we are happy our rights and our pride and our interdependence.
    All this because we are Muslims.

    I'm sure if you search a wider and deeper facts will surprise you.

    I'm sorry for this position exhibitions. But really I want you to know the right thing.

    Maram, 21 years old, a student in Computer Science

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  5. What about the people that move there? they don't have problems with the rules and regulations. I live in America and honestly in Saudi Arabia there are less slutty women and TEENAGE pregnancies. I think the fact that that's were Islam was founded and the Kabah is there is a big contributing factor in the rules and regulations. People who don't understand Islam or Saudi Arabia are so quick to judge and say "OPPRESSED". i see nothing wrong in serving Allah (swt). MANY Muslim women choose to cover their face and are usually the REAL religious ones. I see nothing wrong in them doing what they believe is right. peace.

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  6. I can related to the culture shock and I won't say "not true" or "you looked at the bad side only" but I do have a newsflash :-)

    NO ONE votes in Saudi, OK?

    It's not restricted to men, no one votes! We are not a democratic country, nor are we half way there .. voting was tried for municipalities only and has nothing to do with government. Granted women were not invited then either. Now there was more recent voting for places in the regional chambers of commerce and women were allowed to "run" as candidates and some actually won. Now that is news.

    The real concern is for "Human rights" not women's rights only .. and I hope people can distinguish what women really need to enable a respectful decent life without so much dependency on their moody male guardians, versus what is the accepted norm in the west. Some things would not fit into our culture or religion .. and some issues and practices here misuse the name of religion to do their bidding ..

    I guess women scare men so they feel the need to oppress us .. historically the same old story - time has simply not caught up yet in our new country ;-)

    in the 60s German women were not allowed to open bank accounts without their husbands permission.
    voting did not happen for some European (i believe in Scandinavian) countries until quite recently.
    and examples are many if one cares to remember .. even in kids movies (marry poppins for example i remember the mother of the children being very busy promoting women's rights)

    About Saudi having less "slutty" women and teenage pregnancies .. well .. on the face of it, maybe. This exists in EVERY country just not as obvious. Reg teen pregnancies .. well most are pregnant still in their late teens only they are married and its legal.

    The post did present things in a blunt way, but fellow Arabs and Saudis .. denying we have problems will not make them go away .. clarify the misstatements OBJECTIVELY, and work at the core to make things better.

    I for one am against marrying before 18 and hope that this is soon a legal requirement
    (I will not go into debate on the Prophet pbuh, and sayida Aisha. (1) her age is debatable (2) men now cannot be compared to a prophet of God - full stop!).

    Regards to all and happy Xmas season to all who celebrate
    A Saudi woman

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